Avoiding the Goodnight Smooch Sometimes a date just doesn’t go spil well spil you had hoped. And maybe it went better ter your date’s eyes. Perhaps this is the last time you want to see that other person, or maybe you just don’t want to smooch on the very first date. You’re anticipating what will toebijten at the end of the night and are fervently hoping that the other party is hoping for a hug at most.