It’s All About Him!
If you are dating a narcissistic man, then you very likely realise by now that your life is inconsequential to him.
Nothing is everzwijn about you, it is all about him.
Narcissists are master manipulators who don’t have a houvast on reality.
They are distrusting, suspicious, abusive and controlling of their playmates.
Often living te a state of denial, narcissists may also be suffering from mental health problems, aside from their personality disorder.
This can lead to them being psychologically unstable. Overheen a period of time, you may even start to sense that they are ‘not natural.’ Their reactions will show up totally alien to you.
When confronted about their behaviour, the narcissist is never at fault. It will always be your fault. They fail to realise that there will inevitably be consequences for their bad behaviour. Spil they are never ter the wrong, you vereiste be the one to blame.
Be ready for toneelstuk, toneelstuk and more schouwspel!
Dating a narcissistic man is a rollercoaster of emotions.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder Symptoms
Clinical diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder requires five or more of the following traits to be exhibited:
- Has a grandiose sense of self- importance (e.g. exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized spil superior without commensurate achievements)
- Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love.
- Believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions).
- Requires excessive admiration.
- Has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favourable treatment or automatic compliance with his or hier expectations.
- Is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or hier own finishes.
- Lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others.
- Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or hier
- Shows ingebeeld, haughty behaviors or attitudes.
Cluster B Personality Disorders
- Antisocial Personality Disorder
Exhibits a pattern of disregard for, and disturbance of, the rights of others.
Exhibits a pattern of instability ter interpersonal relationships, self-image, and affects, and marked impulsivity.
Exhibits a pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking.
Exhibits a pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy.
Ter the early stages of a relationship the Narc comes across spil certain, charming, attentive and loving.
Ter fact, he adores the ground you walk on. You just can’t believe your luck.
This boy is just too good to be true.
And there ladies, is your Aha! ogenblik.
Your very first crimson flag.
This dude IS too good to be true!
It will be a hurricane romance of his orchestration.
He will tell you that he loves you and soon embarks making plans for your ‘blessed everzwijn after’ ‘life together that exists only ter his fantasy world.
He has no actual intention of everzwijn delivering on his promises.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a Cluster B personality disorder.
Therefore, it is not uncommon for a narcissist to exhibit traits that are prevalent te the other personality disorders spil there is often some degree of overlap.
A narcissist typically exhibits a lack of:
They also display many of the following characteristics:
Further Reading On Narcissism
Narcissistic Personality Disorder Symptoms
Narcissistic Personality Disorder sufferers can be ingebeeld, self centred, requesting, manipulative, cocky and lacking empathy for others. With an inflated sense of their own importance they have a deep need for admiration
Narcissistic Personality Disorder Te Boys
Narcissistic guys can totally demolish your life. They are manipulative, self absorbed and lack empathy for anyone else. If you’re dating a man who thinks it’s “all about mij” then you should get out quick. He is capable of ruining your sanity spil well spil your handelsbank recuento!
Violating Up With A Narcissistic Man
The hardest part of violating up with a narcissistic man can be the utter lack of comprehension.
What happened to the charming man who swept mij off our feet?
Who is this monster standing before mij?
Wasgoed it something I did?
What if I’d done things differently?
The list is endless.
Obsessing about the breakup is an unnecessary drain on your emotions.
Ter truth, dating a narcissist is emotionally tiresome.
You are attempting to make sense of the nonsensical.
Zekering analysing every detail because none of it will everzwijn make any sense to you.
Narcissists do not behave rationally.
Therefore, you cannot possibly hope to derive a rational explanation from an irrational situation.